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I came across this article on Pinterest<\/a>. You can check out the article here:\u00a0Ten Self Defense Tips For Women<\/a>. I’m not going to talk about all ten, and if you do check out the article there may be some points you agree with, some you may not. For example, I have a huge issue with No. 9. Some of you may not. That’s fine. But there is one I want to talk about.<\/p>\n

So…let’s talk about No. 7, shall we.<\/p>\n

7. ANSWER THE DOOR<\/p>\n

Typically, we\u2019ve been told, \u201cIf you\u2019re home alone and someone knocks, don\u2019t answer \u2013 they\u2019ll go away.\u201d Recent events, though, are showing that more and more, burglars are doing home invasions assuming that if no one answers, it\u2019s safe to go in. Locally, we\u2019ve been told by our police department to answer with a call for who it is, and let them know you\u2019re on the phone or won\u2019t be answering the door or other ways to let the person know you aren\u2019t going to be opening the door. Never actually answer the door even for a service person you are expecting until you\u2019ve been able to confirm that they are actually who they say they are.<\/p>\n

Do not invite a predator in.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I have a little bit of personal experience with this one. One day the doorbell rang. I was a little slow to answer it. The door knob rattled but didn’t open because for once it was locked (which didn’t happen a lot). Weird, I thought. You have to know at this point that at the time I lived in a reasonably safe neighborhood of my city. I wasn’t thinking anything bad. I was just thinking strange. Possibly, I’d watched too much television. Because, hello, don’t criminals case a joint before they rob it. Make sure it’s empty? And who would rob our house. We had nothing worth stealing. This was in the days before huge televisions that weighed next to nothing, computers, cell phones, iPads, etc. We were young, had a young family; all our money went to food and shelter. We had one small 15 inch television.<\/p>\n

And it was the middle of the day.<\/p>\n

But I digress, so what did I do. I OPENED THE DOOR. Wide open without a ‘Who’s there?” or “Who is it?” And there stood a young man in a track suit over six feet tall, looking quite presentable, and clean cut if a little shocked. He eventually smiled when I looked him in the eye and said, “Hi there, can I help you?”<\/p>\n

That’s me. Still not having a clue. Did I mention that I’m a very trusting person?<\/p>\n

He fumbled around for something to say. And finally settled on, “I’m looking for Broad Street.”<\/p>\n

So…Broad Street is a VERY major street in my city. And it’s nowhere near my house.<\/p>\n

Now I’m starting to get suspicious. But I still explain to him where Broad Street is just in case he’s actually lost. I know! Polite to the bitter end. Which thankfully it wasn’t.<\/p>\n

And he said, “Okay, thanks for your help.”<\/p>\n

Because he was polite too. This is Canada after all. Those rumors are true.<\/p>\n

I shut the door. They drove off. Yes, there were more men in the car outside. It’s okay to think what you’re thinking. I have more sense now.<\/p>\n

By then I’m thinking maybe I should call the police. Because that was really, really weird and obviously he wasn’t looking for Broad Street and they were scouting out empty houses. The police took my call very seriously. They took down my information and checked to see if a car similar to my description had been stolen recently. Probably not a good idea to go about robbing houses with your own vehichle.<\/p>\n

They called back not fifteen minutes later asking more specific questions and looking for more details because apparently they just drove further down the street and found a house where someone wasn’t home and broke in. A neighbor spotted them.<\/p>\n

Now, I didn’t invite him in. But, if he’d have wanted to come in without an invitation, he could have pushed his way in. Easily.<\/p>\n

And that was a humbling thought.<\/p>\n

I like to think I’m more careful now. Better at keeping the door locked and asking who it is if they’re unexpected. But I did get a scolding in the grocery store the other day for leaving my purse unattended in my cart. By a well meaning guy who said I really shouldn’t walk away and leave my purse, wide open, for anyone to snoop through or steal.<\/p>\n

I thanked him. What he said was true.<\/p>\n

So…just remember, stay safe.<\/p>\n

Monday, June 1st we’re hosting a Facebook Party (my first one): Romance: Past, Present and Future<\/a> from 6:00 pm to 9:00 pm MST.<\/p>\n

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The Grand Prize is a $30 gift certificate. There will be prizes, trivia, games, snippets and lots of laughs. There’s a little bit of something for everyone, romance and some stories with romantic elements. Everything from historical (1940s), to contemporary, suspense, paranormal\/urban fantasy, and science fiction. Join us!<\/p>\n

\"Backlash<\/a><\/p>\n

BACKLASH<\/a><\/p>\n

When dedicated teacher Lily Wheeler interrupts a vicious gang attack on one of her students, she vows it won\u2019t happen again. But her rash interference puts her in the path of a cold-blooded killer and the constable tracking him \u2014 a man she has little reason to trust, but can never forget.<\/p>\n

Constable Chase Porter returned to Aspen Lake to see justice done, not renew old acquaintances. But when he rescues the woman he once loved from a volatile situation, he realizes his feelings for Lily haven\u2019t lessened over the years.<\/p>\n

Now, the dangerous killer Chase has sworn to capture has Lily in his sights. Can Chase and Lilly learn to trust each other again before it\u2019s too late \u2014 or will old insecurities jeopardize their future?<\/p>\n

\"Available<\/a>

Available Now<\/p><\/div>\n

Do you have any safety tips you’d like to share?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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