January 2025 Romance Book Recommendation: Forget Me Not by Julie Soto

January is an excellent month to recommend a book that has a lot of flowers in it. Not only does it have plenty of blooms to remind a person of summer, it’s definitely steamy. Forget Me Not by Julie Soto will warm you right up.

You can find my take on Romance Novel Heat Ratings in previous posts. Tender and Warm and Steamy and Spicy.

Forget Me Not by Julie Soto

Categories: Contemporary Romance

Blurb:

Ama Torres is an optimistic wedding planner who doesn’t believe in marriage. But weddings? They’re amazing. Elliot Bloom is a brooding florist who hates owning a flower shop…until a certain bright-eyed, donut-loving workaholic shows up at his door.

Once upon a time, they collaborated on events by day, and by night, Ama traced the intricate flower tattoos etched along his body. Then Ama shattered his heart and never spoke to Elliot again.    

Now they’re working on an event that could make or break both of their careers—except neither of them has gotten over what happened two years ago. Things are not helped by the two brides, who see the obvious chemistry between Ama and Elliot and are determined to set them up, not knowing their complicated history. But as the wedding takes on a life of its own, Ama and Elliot are about to discover that some things can survive a complete catastrophe . . . 

A Ramble of Thoughts:

Forget Me Not is a contemporary romance told in a dual timeline and that is one of my favourite things about this story. The present day is told in Ama’s perspective and the past (what unfolded two years ago) is told in Elliot’s point of view. It was a very unique way to explain what went wrong in their past relationship and show how they are able to reconnect in the present.

Another of favourite things about this book is Ama and Elliot’s creative chemistry. There is plenty of work related talk in this book and I loved it. I remember reading in Stephen King’s memoir that people love to read about other peoples jobs. And it’s so true for me. Ama is an up and coming wedding planner of high profile weddings and Elliot is a talented florist who taps into his architectural training to create elaborate floral arrangements. They work together to create one of a kind weddings, even if it’s against Elliot’s will. Because Ama is a force.

This book is funny and serious and charming and entertaining. Some would say it’s got grumpy/sunshine vibes. But I think it’s got more of an opposites attract kind of energy. There are lots of people in this book and I’m here for it. Julie Soto creates a world where people, work, live and love. It’s full and rich and colourful. Definitely recommend! I’ve gone on to read her second book, Not Another Love Song, and I fully enjoyed that one too.

Until next time…

What have you been reading? Do you love a book that gives you insight into peoples jobs?

Hello 2025: Creativity and Creative Intentions For The New Year

My creative intentions for 2025. Write, read and paint. Plus a few more.

My 5 Things to Remember About Creativity (from an amateur with no professional qualifications whatsoever)

You don’t have to be ‘naturally good’ at something to try it. It’s not a competition. It’s not a race. It’s not about perfection. Allow yourself to be imperfect. Allow yourself to try. And to quit.

Seek out inspiration. From art galleries. From documentaries. From books. From nature. Honestly, I get a lot of ideas from scoping out crafts for kids. Go to your local library. Follow artists on social media. Take a class. Listen to a podcast.

Put down your phone. I know. I get it. I spend too much time on my phone too. It’s easy. The pretty aesthetics. The funny memes. The inspirational reels. The entertaining viral videos. The recipes! I read something recently about letting ourselves get bored. Turns out that boredom leads to increased creativity, among other positive things.

It doesn’t have to be a big something. It can be a small. It can be a 3 x 3 inch square of paper and BIC pen and a quick doodle. It can be a seed you plant in a tiny pot. It can be writing a haiku. It can be a pot of soup. Or an apple pie. It can be learning cursive writing (for the young ones out there). It can be origami. (This is what I’m doing right now. To understand how it’s going, see No. 1.)

Realizing that being a perfectionist is not a good thing. Let go of harsh self judgements. Kick those impossibly high expectations to the curb. It’s not that easy, believe me, I know. But it can be a work in progress. Give yourself some grace. You don’t need to be perfect at something to reap the benefits of doing it.

I hope every one of you have some kind of creative project on the go. Or are at least thinking of something you want to try this year. If that is the case, I hope you give that thing a go. Or that you do more of the ones that bring you joy.

Until next time…

Do you have any creative things you want to try? Are thinking of trying? Or have already started? Let me know.

December 2024: Recipe of the Month Recommendation

How To Make Chocolate Bark From The Pioneer Woman

So, forget the hustle, hustle, hustle of performance culture and take care of your mental health by doing what you can with what you have.

Until next time…

December 2024: Filling My Creative Well With Live Theatre and Bad Hats Theatre’s Peter Pan

Bad Hats Theatre’s Peter Pan at Globe Theatre.

Playing from November 27 to January 5, 2025

Remember to give yourself some grace during these hectic days.

November 2024: My Month in Review

November has come and mostly gone. I don’t know, what is there to say about November? I did stuff? I get that November is big in the US with Thanksgiving and all, but in Canada? It’s kind of just a regular month. Unless you’re one of those cheery, bright-spirited people who already have their tree up and have decorated for Christmas while bopping around to holiday music.

I have gotten some Christmas things done! I ordered our tree, which will be here the beginning of December. I made gift tags. I also started making lists to keep organized in an effort to manage my tinsel themed holiday anxiety. Who remembers that glittery silver tinsel that you hung on the tree and that stuck to everything? My anxiety is a little bit like that tinsel. It will hang around where it’s least wanted if I don’t manage it.

Also, it snowed. Like, a lot. Winter has officially arrived. As I sit here writing, big, fluffy flakes are falling down. Again.

I’ve been writing almost every day. I’m very happy about that.

In spirit of American Thanksgiving and because it’s always good to give thanks, I’ll say I’m grateful for family and friends and the understanding and empathy we’ve felt from our loved ones this year. May the rest of 2024 be kind to you.

And, lastly:

Until next time…

November 2024 Romance Book Recommendation: Mother Faker by Brittanee Nicole

Mother Faker by Brittanee Nicole

Blurb:

Now if someone could just remind him that it’s all fake.

Thoughts:

What has everyone else been reading?

Romance Novel Heat Ratings: Tender vs Warm

Tender vs Warm

Tender

Warm

Author Genevieve Graham comes to mind as an example.

November 2024: Recipe of the Month Recommendation

I might be Canadian but doesn’t mean this week’s US presidential election didn’t deeply disappoint. Just this morning at the mention of a known anti-vaxxer and conspiracy theorist possibly being put in charge of a major health portfolio had a someone from my home town hoping more of that nonsense makes its way into Canadian politics. Sigh.

Anyhoo…

Food.

Remember one way to stick it to the patriarchy is to feed ourselves. We’re going to need all the energy we can get to fight against governments that want us to shrink and become as small and docile as possible. So, if you like to bake then bake. When you bake your focus and concentration is on the recipe and you are staying in the moment. Destress. Clear your head. Feed yourself and others. Find the joy in whisking up a little something and get creative with your food.

Quick and Easy Blueberry Muffins from Inspired Taste

They really are so easy to make and simply delicious! I’ve made them twice now and each time they’ve been great. This recipe is probably versatile, as I think you could probably use any fruit in it. I’m going to have to give it a try with strawberries or apples.

Until next time…

What’s your favourite muffin recipe?

November 2024: Refilling My Creative Well with Cross Stitch